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Meeting your shadow


  Meet: your shadow.


The side of your sexuality & of your inner self that you don't want to admit is there.  The side that you'd be so scared for someone to truly see.  What would they think? What would it feel like? Often, we are terrified to think of what would happen if this part of us came out.  But, what if we weren't? Here is a micro-mini version of a practice that you can do right now, for free, to start to loosen the grip that this kind of fear has on us.  #1: Let your mind come up with the two or three things that you want someone who loves you to think about you.  I would want them to think of me as ____________, ____________, & ____________________.  #2: Imagine what it would feel like for you to sit across from someone you love, and hear them say "You are NOT" the words above.  #3: Let yourself feel fully what that would be like, notice what comes up in your body. Where does it feel tight, tense, or even painful? #4: Now, let yourself go all the way IN to that feeling. I am NOT [kind, giving, loving, soft, beautiful, etc.] What if you fully embraced NOT being this quality? What would your life be like? What would you say or do? #5: This is your shadow. It is here not to shame or isolate you, but to teach you just a little more about yourself.  #6: Now, imagine your shadow side — this full rejection of who you WANT to be, this exchange for the opposite qualities within you — and see if you can picture it as a little child.  For example, if your shadow side is GREEDY and takes everything, if it is the opposite of being seen as generous, or giving, perhaps you can picture a small child in a candy shop eating every sweet thing that they can find.  #7: See if you can softly see that inner child part of you with sweetness & love, letting it be fully part of you.  Real freedom is just on the other side of cutting off the different parts of ourselves. We don't need to be scared, we can just ask them what they need. This is the very beginning of the work I do in Uncover, as we unwind the grip of fear & tension from our story of who we are.


Would you like to see more? The free masterclass that I led last night is here.


You'll learn: 

Why your "baggage" from the past is actually not too much to handle How to handle self sabotage & old roadblocks The true way to feel sexy that has nothing to do with anyone else's opinion




& You are invited to join us in Uncover, if you are ready to experience freedom & healing, wild romance & deep passion. We Start Tomorrow! If you want to end the year re-commited to your deepest desires & your truest love, this is for you. 


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What people are saying about Uncover:


“I had some initial hesitations about joining Uncover because I am very happily married! I wasn't sure if I would be the only one, or if by signing up I was sending the message that something was wrong in my relationship. But once the course started I knew I was in the right place, and it was so clear from day one that this work is really for everyone. It doesn't matter if you are happy in a relationship, unhappy in a relationship, single, or looking- Uncover meets you where you are and focuses on YOU and how you can be the best version of you, in whatever stage, to have more fulfilling relationships and better communication." - Leila -

"You need this. Just bite the bullet, pay the money, every penny is worth it. I'm saying this as a person who loves introspection and thought I had a handle on it. I had no idea what was inside me that needed to come out. It was scary at first, but IT IS SAFE. You are safe here with Kim, and she will not judge you. Let her help you with what she's learned. I promise you that you need it. No matter where you are, you need it. So if anything she says strikes a chord at all, follow that feeling and just sign up for this program. It will really, truly change your life and I don't say that lightly."

- Sophia -


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Whether it is the right time for you to join us in Uncover or not, feel free to download this free journal to start the process of Uncovering within.




Because, Uncover is really a ten week immersion in practices and tools that strip away the walls we have built up around us, and that keep us from experiencing deep love.  So, it includes coaching + guided work + videos & audio lessons + community support, but it mostly returns you back to YOU.  It is the flashlight held up while you find your way home, to you.




Plus, join now for bonus gifts! 

-Vision Board Magic: my online vision board workshop that helps you get crafty and create goals with real soul  -a VIP strategy session with me to map out a guide to your deepest love life  & the pay-in-full bonuses: -$500 off the Tuscany retreat  -Goddess Glow: my self care course  -self care box of gifts


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FAQs: Q: TIME. If I'm already filled to the brim in my schedule should I wait to do it another time? A: It depends.  This program is really designed to help you say YES to yourself more and more. What I often find when clients are super busy (or when I am super busy myself) is that we have all said yes to a bunch of stuff that we actually don't want to, or even don't have to do. Are there commitments in your life that you can clear away, delegate, or streamline, that would open up more space for you? (This might be something to consider just in general, but especially if you feel pulled to join us.)  As far as the time commitment and the pacing, I'll say two things, and you can choose. On the one hand, you'll always have access to the program, so you can really go at your own pace. On the other hand, I find that when we really step into our commitment, carving out roughly an hour or so per week just for ourselves, to light a candle, pull out our journal, and do this kind of deep inner work, it actually gives us our time BACK because we are so filled up and focused on our truth. Just like you would make time for a dear friend, a date with your spouse, or to connect with your kids, how can you make a date with your inner self a priority? I promise that if you do, the immense healing and freedom you will uncover will be worthwhile.  Q: Am I going to cry?  A: You can do this.  We have a myth in our world that we are fragile, broken creatures, incapable of going to the hard places. It's what leads us to shy away from the broken parts of our world, even when we want to stand up and help, and it's what keeps us afraid & frozen, as we fear what lurks underneath our pain, our past, or our guilt.  So let me be clear: You. Are. Strong.  You. Are. Brave.  This is not self indulgent or dangerous,  this is your first step to showing up in the world in love, for real.  This is the first step toward getting the love you want, and giving the love you have.  Q: Is it worth the money? A: If the price is giving you pause, I'd love to invite you to think about what it means to invest in something, rather than imagining just spending money. I remember the first program that I spent money on, even with a discount and even though I knew it was a huge value, it was terrifying. What if it wasn't worth it? I quickly realized that what I was really afraid of was, "What if I'm not worth it?"  The truth is, Uncover is less than six months of couples counseling, or a last ditch effort vacation, less than going to dinner once a month at a fancy restaurant on a date, or a monthly massage.  I know it feels scary to invest in ourselves, especially in an area like love & romance that we are taught should just happen if it is right, but you are worth this. It will change the course of your life to truly know yourself and infuse your life with passion, spice, and depth.  If you decide this wasn't the right fit, there is also a 100% satisfaction policy, where you can receive a full refund if you aren't happy. 


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